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The truth of being a parent to a child with adhd I Know he has adhd but If only he would use his time more effectively I know he has adhd but everyone in the classroom can I know he has adhd but that is not an excuse I know he has adhd but I have a class of over 30 students We hear this but we also hear You allow your child to use adhd as an excuse You are not being firm enough at home You need to stop hovering over him You are not a great parent These words leave us feeling defeated, angry, sad

The truth of being a parent to a child with adhd I Know he has adhd but If only he would use his time more effectively I know he has adhd but everyone in the classroom can I know he has adhd but that is not an excuse I know he has adhd but I have a class of over 30 students We hear this but we also hear You allow your child to use adhd as an excuse You are not being firm enough at home You need to stop hovering over him You are not a great parent These words leave us feeling defeated, angry, sad

21.9K viewsApr 4, 2025

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It’s hard enough being a parent to a child with ADHD — fighting for accommodations at school, navigating dysregulation at home — without having to carry the weight of everyone’s judgment on top of it. Please 🙏 don’t judge me until you’ve walked in my 👠 shoes. Please don’t tell me how to raise my child. I’m doing the best I can… and so is my child. 💛 Parents of kids with ADHD — I see you. I get you. I’ve got you. 😉 Drop a ❤️ below if you’re tired of the judgment #adhd #adhdawareness #adhdprob

It’s hard enough being a parent to a child with ADHD — fighting for accommodations at school, navigating dysregulation at home — without having to carry the weight of everyone’s judgment on top of it. Please 🙏 don’t judge me until you’ve walked in my 👠 shoes. Please don’t tell me how to raise my child. I’m doing the best I can… and so is my child. 💛 Parents of kids with ADHD — I see you. I get you. I’ve got you. 😉 Drop a ❤️ below if you’re tired of the judgment #adhd #adhdawareness #adhdprob

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The adhd parenting playbook - 3 plays that will change everything ending. 3 plays that are at the foundation of my 5 week adhd group coaching program . 3 plays that will shift you from struggling to thriving . No 1 get curious not curious no 2 shut the fluff up no 3 stop trying to fix what is not broken . When you e excite these plays things change - you shift into skill building , you stop being dragged into arguments and stop trying to fix what is not broken and work on optimization of the adh

The adhd parenting playbook - 3 plays that will change everything ending. 3 plays that are at the foundation of my 5 week adhd group coaching program . 3 plays that will shift you from struggling to thriving . No 1 get curious not curious no 2 shut the fluff up no 3 stop trying to fix what is not broken . When you e excite these plays things change - you shift into skill building , you stop being dragged into arguments and stop trying to fix what is not broken and work on optimization of the adh

4.2K views7 months ago

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💥 The Most Powerful ADHD Parenting Strategy 💥It’s not a chart.It’s not a consequence.It’s not the perfect words in the heat of the moment.👉 It’s this:Your ability to sit with your child’s BIG emotions — anger, frustration, overwhelm — and NOT let those feelings scare you out of holding a boundary.That’s the moment everything changes.When your child screams “You’re the worst!”When they slam a door, collapse in tears, or tell you they hate you…And you stay calm.You hold the line.You say with lo

💥 The Most Powerful ADHD Parenting Strategy 💥It’s not a chart.It’s not a consequence.It’s not the perfect words in the heat of the moment.👉 It’s this:Your ability to sit with your child’s BIG emotions — anger, frustration, overwhelm — and NOT let those feelings scare you out of holding a boundary.That’s the moment everything changes.When your child screams “You’re the worst!”When they slam a door, collapse in tears, or tell you they hate you…And you stay calm.You hold the line.You say with lo

16.5K views9 months ago

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🌟 3 Game-Changing Strategies to Help Your ADHD Child Thrive If you’ve ever gone to bed feeling like you failed at parenting… this is for you. The homework battles. The outbursts that come out of nowhere. The constant reminders that lead to more frustration instead of progress. You’re not broken. Your child’s not broken. You’re both just stuck in a pattern that no one ever taught you how to change. On Sunday, November 9th, 2025, I’m hosting a FREE Masterclass that will change the way you see ADH

🌟 3 Game-Changing Strategies to Help Your ADHD Child Thrive If you’ve ever gone to bed feeling like you failed at parenting… this is for you. The homework battles. The outbursts that come out of nowhere. The constant reminders that lead to more frustration instead of progress. You’re not broken. Your child’s not broken. You’re both just stuck in a pattern that no one ever taught you how to change. On Sunday, November 9th, 2025, I’m hosting a FREE Masterclass that will change the way you see ADH

12.3K views5 months ago

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🚨 Stop making this mistake it’s making things worse for your adhd child Hey Parent, Let’s talk about the biggest ADHD parenting mistake I see every single week — the one that keeps families stuck in chaos. 👉 We keep trying to change the behaviour. But here’s the truth: the behaviour isn’t the problem. Let me repeat that for the folks in the back — Behaviour is not the problem. The problem is a skill deficit. ADHD isn’t about laziness or defiance — it’s a deficit in managing: 🕒 Time 📦 Stuff �

🚨 Stop making this mistake it’s making things worse for your adhd child Hey Parent, Let’s talk about the biggest ADHD parenting mistake I see every single week — the one that keeps families stuck in chaos. 👉 We keep trying to change the behaviour. But here’s the truth: the behaviour isn’t the problem. Let me repeat that for the folks in the back — Behaviour is not the problem. The problem is a skill deficit. ADHD isn’t about laziness or defiance — it’s a deficit in managing: 🕒 Time 📦 Stuff �

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No 1 adhd parenting strategy is stop being your adjd child’s source of dopamine by jumping in the ring and responding to their behaviour. I know it’s hard . I know our gut reaction is to respond . But folks hard does not been you can do it . Hard means you need to have a plan so you don’t jump into the ring . Hard means that you do the work you know the same thing you are asking your child to do learn to calm the fluff down. In Bootcamp my 5 week adhd group coaching program I show you how not on

No 1 adhd parenting strategy is stop being your adjd child’s source of dopamine by jumping in the ring and responding to their behaviour. I know it’s hard . I know our gut reaction is to respond . But folks hard does not been you can do it . Hard means you need to have a plan so you don’t jump into the ring . Hard means that you do the work you know the same thing you are asking your child to do learn to calm the fluff down. In Bootcamp my 5 week adhd group coaching program I show you how not on

151.9K views11 months ago

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📌What They Don’t Tell You About ADHD Parent Burnout 🔎They tell you ADHD parenting requires patience. They tell you it takes extra energy. But what they don’t tell you—what no one really prepares you for—is the deep, relentless exhaustion that comes with raising a child whose brain never slows down, whose emotions run at full volume, and who needs constant scaffolding just to get through the day. 📍ADHD parent burnout isn’t just tiredness—it’s an all-consuming, never-getting-a-break, questionin

7.2K viewsMar 5, 2025

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Parents — the defiance isn’t the problem. The root is. ADHD is a skill deficit, not a character flaw. Your child isn’t choosing chaos… they’re missing the self-regulation executive functioning skills they’ve never been taught. Their behaviour is not “I’m bad.” It’s “I need help.” And when those skills aren’t taught? The behaviour grows. Until suddenly you have a teen who shuts down, avoids everything, and never leaves their room — and no, that’s not “just teen stuff.” The truth: ⭐ Skills stop th

17K views4 months ago

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5 Truths Every Parent of an ADHD Child (Aged 8–18) Needs to KnowThese will change your parenting journey forever. 1. Your child isn’t lazy, disrespectful, or manipulative.They’re struggling.ADHD is a brain delay, not a behavior problem.🧠 Executive function skills like planning, regulating emotions, and following through are years behind.When you punish a skill deficit, you miss the chance to teach it.➡️ Shift from blame to brain — and everything changes .2. Consequences don’t teach skills.If ye

78.3K views8 months ago

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5 common mistakes parents of kids with ADHD make… and what to do instead. 1. ❌ Mistake: Interpreting Behaviour as Defiance Parents often think: “They’re just being oppositional or lazy.” 👉 ADHD behaviours (like not listening, procrastinating, interrupting) often come from skill deficits, not defiance. ✅ Do Instead: Pause and ask: “What skill is my child missing right now?” — e.g., task initiation, impulse control, working memory. Support with prompts, visuals, or step-by-step scaffolding rather

70.3K views6 months ago

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✨ 🚫 Stop Saying These 10 Things to Parents of Kids with ADHD ✨ Parenting a child with ADHD is already hard. What makes it feel unbearable is the constant judgment disguised as “helpful advice.” Here are 10 things parents are tired of hearing: 1️⃣ “Have you tried being more consistent?” 2️⃣ “Aren’t we all a little ADHD?” 3️⃣ “They’ll grow out of it.” 4️⃣ “You just need to discipline better.” 5️⃣ “It’s just a boy thing.” 6️⃣ “You should try…” 7️⃣ “Back in my day, we didn’t have ADHD.” 8️⃣ “Maybe

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🎤Every parent to a child with ADHD has been set up to fail. Yep. I said it. You walk out of the doctor’s office with: ✅ a diagnosis ✅ a prescription …and basically a “good luck.” No one sits you down and says: ADHD isn’t a “listen better” problem. It’s an executive function deficit. Which means your child will need to be TAUGHT things other kids slowly pick up over time like: • time management • planning • organization • starting tasks • emotional regulation And if nobody teaches you how to tea

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Worst ADHD parenting advice ever? “Just let them fail.” Mmm… how’s that working out for your family? Let me guess — now you’ve got a rude, angry, defiant child… or one who’s simply given up. And nope — we can’t blame our kids for that. We (and the school system) are failing them. “Let them fail” assumes it’s will, not skill. But ADHD isn’t a motivation problem — it’s a regulation and skills problem. So stop taking advice that was never meant for ADHD brains. Those strategies don’t work — and tha

11.1K views5 months ago

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💥 Can I Solve YOUR ADHD Parenting Challenges? You know the ones: • How do I get them off screens without a meltdown? • How do I get them to stop procrastinating? • How do I get them to stay focused? • How do I get them to feel motivated? 👉 If you’re nodding your head right now, then you’re going to want to join me for my ADHD Parenting Power Hour. 🗓 Sunday, October 4th, 2025 Two sessions to choose from 🕚 11:00 AM New York time 🌆 7:30 PM New York time You can join whichever session works bes

1.3K views6 months ago

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ADHD Parents — Want to Know the BEST Time to Teach Your Child Executive Function Skills? SUMMER. Say it louder for the people in the back: IN. THE. SUMMER ☀️ Why? Because executive function skills — like planning, time management, emotional regulation, and working memory — aren’t built by yelling “Go do your homework!” or begging your child to finish chores they hate. They’re built through DOING. Through real-life moments. Through fun, low-pressure, skill-building opportunities. And guess what s

2.7K views11 months ago

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Why punishment is the most ineffective parenting strategy for kids with adhd? Okay folks tell me this does punishment teach skills . Mmm of course it doesn’t what it teaches is shame and blame . And tell me this is adhd a skill based deficit you know your child has no time management, organization, planning skills or emotional regulation skills. I hope you are dating yes Allison!! So then tell me how does punishing your child solve the problem . It doesn’t you have to be teaching skills now don’

53.9K views2 months ago

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No 1 mistake parents to kids tweens and teens make - we don’t understand that their are 1-2 thins were kids with adhd excel and everything else they will need support . So we get frustrated we see this as a deficit if will not skill . Folks I will shout it from the rooftops adhd is a deficit of skills and when you understand this everything changes . You shift from anger frustration to understanding and compassion and then things change . But to make the shift you must understand the adhd brain

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Does your child with ADHD struggle to get motivated to do the things you ask? I see you nodding your head. Hello I am you. I’m a parent in a house full of sons with ADHD… and yes, a spouse too. So let me say this slowly, because it changes everything: Your child is not unmotivated. Sit with that. Your child wants to do well. (And don’t roll your eyes even the most oppositional, defiant-looking child wants to do well.) The problem isn’t motivation. The problem is that their brain is stuck. Here’s

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3 things every adhd child wants their teacher and parent to know . No 1 please stop telling me to try harder . If I could I would . My executive function deficit means I need help to meet expectations. No 2 please stop punishing me for having adhd . I need to move this is not me trying to be disruptive this is me trying to get my brain to wake up . No3 adhd might be invisible but that doesn’t mean I don’t need the same amount of support as someone with a visible disability. Folks yours kids can’

45.8K views9 months ago

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The One Thing I Wish I Knew Sooner as an ADHD Parent… (And it would have saved me years of guilt, resentment, and heartbreak) Most ADHD kids don’t choose to get distracted. They’re not lazy. They’re not disrespectful. Their brain literally can’t hold onto focus without support — yet. 🧠 ADHD isn’t a behavior issue. It’s a brain that struggles with regulation, attention, and follow-through. So when we punish, scold, or shame them for things they can’t yet do, we’re not building skills — we’re bui

113.9K views9 months ago

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Best adhd parenting advice - make pancakes . Intrigued I bet you are !! You see folks you’all think executive function are about planning and organizing so you buy planners and clocks and not much changes . It doesn’t change because starting a task does not begin with planning it begins with visualization. Which is what I will be teaching parents in Bootcamp my 5 week adhd group coaching program tonight - how to visualize cause if you can’t to do this sorry folks your kids are not going to be ab

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If telling your ADHD child what to do actually worked… you wouldn’t be exhausted right now. Here’s the truth most parents don’t hear 👇 Executive function skills are not taught by telling. They are built by doing. Tonight in Bootcamp, I’m showing parents exactly how something as simple as making cupcakes becomes one of the most powerful ways to build executive function skills when you use the right language. And no — it’s not about baking. It’s about: • Sequencing • Planning • Holding steps in m

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Worst ADHD parenting advice ever? 👉 “Don’t take it personally.” WTF… how are we not supposed to take it personally? We have feelings. We get hurt. We get triggered. And yes—sometimes our kid’s words feel like a punch straight to the heart. So let’s get this straight: 💥 You ARE allowed to take it personally. You are human. You are attached. You care deeply. But here’s the part no one teaches you… There are two arrows. Arrow 1: your child’s behaviour Arrow 2: the story you tell yourself about wh

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💥 You’re not failing. You’re parenting a different brain. And no one gave you the manual. Maybe your child… 🔁 Refuses to do anything unless you’re standing over them 😤 Explodes over the smallest request 🧱 Shuts down when you try to help 💔 Pushes you away no matter how hard you try to connect You’ve tried charts. Yelling. Staying calm. Lectures. Nothing sticks. And now you’re stuck in survival mode — walking on eggshells, second-guessing every decision, and wondering if you’re doing enough.

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The number one mistake we make about accommodations for our ADHD kids 🚨 Parents of kids with ADHD: The #1 mistake I see over and over again is this 👇 You fight like a lion 🦁 to get school accommodations — and then you forget to fight for them at home. 🏠 Here’s the truth no one tells you: ADHD doesn’t clock out at 3 p.m. ⏰ It impacts your child 24/7 — at home, with homework, chores, even getting ready in the morning. You ask for extra time at school… but do you actually give it at home? You a

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3 strategies to get your adhd child 6 or 16 to calm the fluff down - no 1 change the way you speak no 2 mirror what makes them calm no 3 routines . Yip folks it is as easy as that well the idea is easy it’s the implementation that messes us up which is why I created Bootcamp . #adhd #adhdtiktok #adhdprobs #adhdinwomen #adhdcheck | Allison Solomon

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Stop thinkings it’s defiance in your adhd child tween or teen - you got the wrong memo Parents… can we talk about something that is quietly breaking so many homes? Because I keep hearing the same words over and over: “He’s so defiant.” “She’s so disrespectful.” “They’re doing it on purpose.” “They just don’t care.” And I get it. Because when your child rolls their eyes, snaps back, ignores you, or refuses to move… It FEELS personal. It feels like: • they’re challenging you • they’re testing you

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